Thursday, May 27, 2010

Sex Addiction


Bile da terlalu ske kn satu bnde, smpai da fkr 24/7, aku assume tuh da jadi cm addiction. Or, kalo kite tengok definasi addiction dari internet,

Sexual addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts. Like all addictions, its negative impact on the addict and on family members increases as the disorder progresses. Over time, the addict usually has to intensify the addictive behavior to achieve the same results.

*from http://psychcentral.com/lib/2006/what-is-sexual-addiction/



Aku x cakap nak wat sex intercourse tuh salah, tapi bile da keterlaluan, kite kene stop, or else it will give bad effect in our lives.

Aku x tau la..sama de aku leh di kategori kan sebagai sex slave, tp..just aku still nak amik caution move, sbb tkot2 terjadi kt aku.

Sesape jek leh jdi mangse sex addiction nih. X kisah orang muda, tua, budak kecik or budak besar. kalo korang perasan, de salah sorng cpemain golf terkenal di dunia juga adalah sex salve. Nak tau cter nye, g kt sini

OK, aku tau korang mesti tertanye2, cm ne nak tau aku nih sex slave @ da addict ngan sex? Ok, here's the symptoms of sex addiction:

  • Having multiple sexual partners or extramarital affairs.
  • Engaging in sex with many anonymous partners or prostitutes.
  • Sex addicts treat sexual partners as objects rather than social intimates that are only used for sex.
  • Engaging in excessive masturbation, as often as 10 to 20 times a day.
  • Using pornographic materials a lot. Using chat rooms or online pornography or sex chat phone lines excessively.Engaging in types of sexual behavior that you would not have considered acceptable before. Examples are masochistic or sadistic sex. Sometimes more extreme forms of sexual behavior are engaged in, for example pedophilia, bestiality, rape.
  • Exposure in public.
*credit to www.healthyplace.com

De bebrapa faktor yang wat seseorang tuh leh sampai tahap gian ngan sex nih. Menurut Dr. Patrick Carnes, antara faktor-faktor yang mengakibatkan ketagihan sex ialah;
  • Pernah mengalami gangguan seksual semasa alam kanak-kanak.
  • Berasa malu dengan aktiviti seksual.
  • Tidak dapat menahan diri daripada melakukan aktiviti seksual walaupun tahu aktiviti itu salah.
  • Melakukan hubungan seks yang tidak normal, seperti melanggan pelacur dan melakukan hubungan seks dengan kanak-kanak bawah umur.

Aku rase de rasa jek di antara kite yg jadik sex slave, tapi x ramai yang nak mengaku. Sume nye rata2, mengatakan bende nih bese jek..dan x de la melarat mane. Sampai la satu ari, something bad happen kt korang dan waktu tuh sume nye da terlambat. Sebelom terlambat, de baek nye korang amik caution move. Try tengok symptom2 kt atas tuh..korang de ke x.. kalo de, korang kene benti. Sex is good, I have to admit, Tapi kalo da effect kehidupan kehari-harian korang, tu da jadi bad. So, pe kesan buruk kt sex addiction nih?


Sexual addiction can cause a vicious circle of low self-esteem, anxiety and depression. Although excessive sex can bring short term relief, the harm to the psychological well-being of the individual and to their relationships means intervention is required to bring the problem back into their control.

Someone with a sexual addiction often puts their physical health at risk because of their behavior. Sexually transmitted diseases (STD's), HIV/AIDS, alcoholism and other drug addictions as well as placing themselves at greater risk of violence.

*credit to menshealth.about.com


So, try la fikir ngan sebaek2 nye.. Kita x kn leh dapat sume bende yg kite nak. Mungkin leh..nak enjoy ngan adakan sex intercourse, tp berpada2 la. sekian untuk posting nih. Nanti de mse, aku tambah beberape topik yang best2.
Till then, bye.

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